Identity Ep.6 | Breann Fuller and Coming Back Home

Identity Ep.6 | Breann Fuller and Coming Back Home

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IDENTITY EP.6 | Breann Fuller and Coming Back Home

by Colin McFarland | Anchor + Waves

IN THIS EPISODE

  • A lot of us have a similar beginning: Beehive Soccer | 1:58
  • The roots that we plant for our children run deep | Growing up in a Christian household | 6:22
  • The opportunities that open up for us when others pour into us | 10:40
  • Even when we know what He has promised us, we hold on white-knuckled to what we think is valuable | 14:53
  • Returning Home to what matters and pushing in to Him | 21:56
  • Closing out a chapter on your life, which previously defined you | 24:28
  • It doesn’t matter what your past looks like, God has redeemed you and has a future for you | 28:09
  • How can you work love language into discipleship to reach people where they are? | 34:09
  • You are redeemed and loved more than you’ll ever know | 35:49

INSTANT TAKEAWAYS

1 | FILLING THE VOID

Often times, we as athletes, try and determine our self-worth from accolades, achievements, successes, awards, milestones or accomplishments. But the further we walk down that road, the more unfulfilling it can seem if we’re only doing it for validation from our peers and coaches here on Earth. When we strive for that next milestone, that next award, simply for gaining the recognition that comes with it, we will continue to feel empty. It’s only when we give up our talents to God, and push into honoring him through what we’re doing in our sports, only then are we playing for the true audience of one (that we’re meant to). God has gifted each one of us with different skill sets, and when we use those skills to accomplish anything He is greatly pleased when the glory and honor are given to Him. Make sure you know who you are playing for. 

2 | A PrODIGAL SON OR DAUGHTER

We constantly make the mistake of assuming that we can do it all on our own. We either ignore or can’t fully grasp the promise and redemption that God has for us, and we stiff-arm Him. Breann has a wonderful story of what it was like to pursue love and fulfillment on her own, and how empty that left her. But we’re not alone here, we’re not the only one that has tried to make our own path. And the amazing thing about this is, God wants us to come home to Him. Like the father in the story, he is standing on his porch, peering over the horizon, hoping to catch a glimpse of us as we come back home. It’s not too late, you’re not too far, you’re not too lost for our Father’s love. 

THE STORY OF THE PRODIGAL SON
3 | YOU ARE LOVED

He knows every hair on your head, and knit you into existence before your parents even had a name picked out for you. You are His beloved, you have value and He loves you more than you could ever know. Breann points out that a turning point in her one-on-one relationship with her heavenly Father came when she came to understand her value in His eyes. Not the eyes of her coaches, teammates or peers, but in the eyes of her maker. The more we can push into that and understand that it doesn’t matter where we’ve been or what we’ve done, that when we accept Christ as our savior we are redeemed and loved by Him. Push into that love, let it surround and fill you up.

SHOW NOTES

Glad to have you back for another episode in our Identity series as we continue on, here on Anchor + Waves. This is a really exciting episode, as two extroverts rile each other up about Jesus. Colin sits down with Breann Fuller, a fellow Colorado State University Ram, a former collegiate swimmer, and current ministry junkie. Breann is full of joy and passion for the lord which you can almost feel throughout this interview.

Colin and Breann talk about everything from what it’s like to get recruited, to dealing with injuries, to walking away from the Lord (because we ALWAYS think we can do it on our own . . .) and coming back to him with more fire than ever! If you’re sitting down when you start this episode, you won’t be by the end. Enjoy!

You can also listen in to our newly launched Men’s Podcast Channel: Uncharted, as we’re currently running a sister-program on that channel for male athletes also called Identity.

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Identity Ep.5 | Sarah Thoms and How Performance Stole Her Identity

Identity Ep.5 | Sarah Thoms and How Performance Stole Her Identity

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IDENTITY EP.5 | Sarah Thoms and How Performance Stole Her Identity

by Colin McFarland | Anchor + Waves

IN THIS EPISODE

  • Coaches helped call out greatness in me | 4:40
  • I was exposed to God, faith and the Bible in middle school. I finally wanted to make decisions for myself around that  | 5:32
  • Transition from athletics to Christ being the foundation of your life | 7:42
  • I am fully known and fully loved despite my weakness, and despite my failures  | 9:45
  • Our most effective ministry was when we took them out of their comfort zone and into the outdoors | 13:45
  • A lot of what we do in the outdoors can reveal our weaknesses | 16:30
  • The security we gain through technology and our phones, then turning them off is discomforting | 18:00
  • Mentorship doesn’t have to look like sitting over coffee pouring through Ruth, but building community and doing life together | 22:49

INSTANT TAKEAWAYS

1 | Sports + athletic performance stole my identity

Sarah admits that sports and athletic performance were the first things that stole her identity from Christ. As she asked the questions, “Who am I, and what is my identity?”, she quickly became aware that her identity revolved around performance. She began asking the questions “How does the world see me, and how am I performing?” She found a lot of people’s approval by how she performed. It wasn’t until college that she was able to really understand grace for the first time and get a fuller picture of the gospel. By understanding God’s grace, and the full gospel, she was able to believe fully that, “I am fully known and fully loved despite my weakness, and despite my failures, even when that means failing in a class to the standards I had for myself.”

2 | Revealing our weaknesses

A lot of what we do in the outdoors can reveal our weaknesses. Sarah shares how humbling it is to realize that sometimes we are weaker than we thought and we are not perfect. As students, they too are confronted with the fact that “I am not perfect and maybe I have weaknesses.” This allows us to ask the questions of “How do you reconcile that?” and “How do you allow grace into your life to not be perfect and let the Lord be the answer to that?”

SHOW NOTES

In today’s episode in our Identity Series of Anchor + Waves, we hear from Sarah Thoms, a passionate wilderness adventure-taking soul! She and her husband, Brad Thoms (take a listen on our Uncharted podcast), work with Lifelines, a college ministry that brings young adults to Christ through the outdoors.

Originally from Estes Park, Colorado, Sarah grew up in a home full of sports and the outdoors. As she learned to keep up with her brother’s competitiveness, performance quickly became her identity. Learn how she overcomes performance by finding her true identity in Christ, and the impact her story has in relating to students as she works to be on mission with Jesus.  

You can also listen in to our newly launched Men’s Podcast Channel: Uncharted, as we’re currently running a sister-program on that channel for male athletes also called Identity. Also, as a bonus, Sarah’s husband, Brad, is on this week’s episode for Uncharted!

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Identity Ep.4 | Katie Declet and Playing with a Purpose

Identity Ep.4 | Katie Declet and Playing with a Purpose

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IDENTITY EP.4 | Katie DeClet and Playing with a Purpose

by Wren Pauley | Anchor + Waves

IN THIS EPISODE

  • Our parents deeply influence our passions as we grow up | 1:12
  • How do we keep our roots in our faith? Relationship vs. Religion | 4:56
  • Integrating who you are as an athlete into your Christian Faith, not the other way around | 9:18
  • When “who you are” isn’t a part of your life anymore | 15:29
  • A different way to build community and how Sports + Rec fits into ministry | 18:07
  • Bonus Stuff, Check It Out! | 22:55

INSTANT TAKEAWAYS

1 | WHO YOU ARE, IN CHRIST, FIRST

In today’s episode you hear Katie talk about transitioning from who she is as an athlete, and then working that into her identity in Christ. So often we confuse how that occurs and, mistakenly, we try and have things in our lives fit into boxes. But we are called to have our identity in Christ pour out into all the other areas of our life. Who we are as a friend, as a family member, as a “professional” whatever, as an athlete should all stem from who we are as Christ followers. It should define us above all else.

2 | A DIFFERENT KIND OF MINISTRY

All people develop relationships differently. Sometimes we connect one on one, over a cup of coffee. Bot more often than not, they can feel forced and awkward as a first encounter. That’s generally not how we get to know people! Katie talks about what role Sports + Rec has played in her making friends and developing community and we believe that’s because shoulder to shoulder relationships feel natural. A lot of us athletes grow up playing sports, so when we’re put in the middle of a game, the bond of camaraderie feels natural. Plug into the areas that you feel comfortable and the groups that feel natural and push into deep relationships there. 

SHOW NOTES

We’re really excited for today’s episode in our Identity Series on Anchor + Waves as we have two staff members involved! Wren, whom you’ve been listening to, interviews our very own Katie DeClet. Whether you know Katie from her days in the youth department, the care and counseling center, or on the sports field heading up our co-ed sports and rec activities, she has an incredible passion about her.

Listen in today as she and Wren talk about basketball, the development of faith (and what it really means to own that) along with carrying on through something as we add purpose to journeys in our lives. You don’t want to miss this one!

*Also, make sure you stick around to the end for some awesome bonus material that didn’t make it to the actual interview, or maybe they didn’t know the mics were still on . . . 

You can also listen in to our newly launched Men’s Podcast Channel: Uncharted, as we’re currently running a sister-program on that channel for male athletes also called Identity.

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Identity Ep.3 | Jess Safer and Pursuing God First

Identity Ep.3 | Jess Safer and Pursuing God First

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IDENTITY EP.3 | Jess Safer and Pursuing God First

by Wren Pauley | Anchor + Waves

IN THIS EPISODE

  • When you grow up in a place with more cows than people | 1:23
  • Structure and family dynamics when God isn’t involved intimately  | 4:12
  • When we’re not diligent, there can be a gradual shift in where we place our identities | 7:40
  • But no matter how far we wander, He’s waiting for us to come home  | 11:21
  • Model healthy and impassioned worship, we were designed to worship Him | 15:04
  • When you invest in others, God promises to replentish what we pour out | 17:19

INSTANT TAKEAWAYS

1 | BE AWARE OF WHERE YOU PLACE YOURSELF

If we’re not actively searching for the face of Christ, this world will swallow us whole. Our worship pastor here at Mission Hills has said then once we walk out the doors of the worship-center, the Devil is there waiting for us. And he doesn’t want to make things easy. If we’re not careful and intentional in where we root ourselves, we will be crushed. Jess has amazing insight on what it looks like to put your whole-self in things that are temporary and how unsatisfying that feels. Be strong and intentional in your faith!

2 | PURSUE GOD FIRST

We were all created in His image and he has known us since before anyone else on this planet has. We are not called to be wrapped up in material things and Earthly matters, we were built and created for eternity! When we pursue God first and make him number one in our lives, everything else tends to fall in line. When we’re close to Him, and we’re trusting in His plan for us, we’re secure in our identities.

SHOW NOTES

On today’s installment of the Identity series here on Anchor + Waves, Wren sits down with Jess Safer from the Mission Hills Church Dove Valley Campus. Wren and Jess connected over their passion for Volleyball and connecting athletics to reaching people who might not feel comfortable setting foot inside a church.

They see competitive relationship building as a comfortable way to connect with those that maybe don’t necessarily want to sit down and develop a relationship face to face. Jess talks about her influences growing up in her faith and what it looked like developing as a Christian athlete, and a few pitfalls along the way. Listen in as Wren and Jess take us through finding out who you are through Christ, and owning that identity.

You can also listen in to our newly launched Men’s Podcast Channel: Uncharted, as we’re currently running a sister-program on that channel for male athletes also called Identity.

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Identity Ep.2 | Amy Parkins and Owning Your Faith

Identity Ep.2 | Amy Parkins and Owning Your Faith

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IDENTITY EP.2 | Amy Parkins and OWNING YOUR FAITH

by Wren Pauley | Anchor + Waves

IN THIS EPISODE

  • Growing up as an athlete (a basketball player) and the dedication she poured in to that | 1:47
  • In addition to athletics, Christianity was a strong part of her foundations growing up  | 5:39
  • When you’re raised in a Christian household, but then you make the decision to own your faith  | 8:23
  • When faith and athletics mesh together well, and when one overtakes the other | 10:51
  • A testament to free will | those in our lives that care about us, have to let us figure it out on our own  | 15:39
  • What kind of a leader are you on the court, off the court, as a teammate, as a coach? | 19:24
  • When we’re not rooted in Him, and Earthly things fall away, then what? | 24:50
  • Sports is still my thing, and it’s always going to be my thing, through Him | 28:48
  • Give yourself Grace because God does | 35:45

INSTANT TAKEAWAYS

1 | INTERTWINE CHRISTIANITY INTO ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE

We are not called to compartmentalize our lives when it comes to our relationship with the Father. We don’t have our friends on Sunday, that we see and interact with once a week, then we got back to living our separate lives. We’re called to represent Christ, always. The characteristics of Jesus should be seen in all areas of our lives, to everyone that we come across. Make sure that even when you’re at the post office, at work, or on the field, you’re representing your Father well. And that he’s forever present in your decisions and actions, daily. This applies to when you’re being a teammate and when you’re coaching; you’re focusing on fundamentals and skillsets along with faith development. If you’re a Christian, you’re a Christian no matter what you’re doing. 

2 | HE’S WAITING

Amy’s story probably sounds very similar to some of our own stories in a lot of ways. We think that we can make it on our own. He gifts us with all sorts of skill-sets, talents and abilities and we lean into those and trust in those more than we trust in Him. But the good news is, no matter how far we wander, He’s right there waiting for us to return. We see this in the Parable of the Prodigal Son, that God is waiting to welcome us back into His presence with open arms. Abandon the trust in what you think you can rely on with yourself, and give everything you have over to Him.

3 | GIVE YOURSELF GRACE

This was a fantastic point because it’s so self-explanitory. God gives us grace, and doesn’t continue to beat us up for our pasts. That’s why He sent His son to die for our sins! He loves us, and He really wants us to love ourselves. Give yourself grace, because He does.

SHOW NOTES

We’re glad to have you back for the next episode of our Identity series here on Anchor + Waves. Today, Wren interviews one of her best friends she’s known since childhood, a true gym-rat, Amy Parkins. Amy grew up in a conservative Christian household in Texas, where athletics were encouraged and your personal relationship with Christ equally as important.

Wren and Amy let you listen in to some awesome childhood stories, what it’s like being a mom, and growing into your faith. Listen in today to their conversation as we’re able to peer into this exchange between friends. It’s like we’re back in middle school and we’re the third connection on the phone as they discuss which NBA jerseys were in fashion, the important decision to switch from hats to visors, and instilling Christian values to your children.

You can also listen in to our newly launched Men’s Podcast Channel: Uncharted, as we’re currently running a sister-program on that channel for male athletes also called Identity.

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Identity Ep.1 | Emerald Holden and Creating Legacy

Identity Ep.1 | Emerald Holden and Creating Legacy

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IDENTITY EP.1 | EMERALD HOLDEN AND CREATING LEGACY

by Wren Pauley, Emerald Holden | Anchor + Waves

IN THIS EPISODE

  • Training and competing year round has to take a toll on you | 1:17
  • “Proving” your “worth” and finding out who we are in Christ  | 3:32
  • Being unashamed with your faith in every situation  | 7:51
  • It’s important to build a Christ-Centered-Community around you | seek those out that want to help you grow | 9:47
  • Transitioning from team sports to individual sports | An Audience of One  | 13:08
  • Being brought up in a home that supported sports and pursued faith and currently fostering a similar environment | 18:24
  • Even when we change, He never does | 22:35

INSTANT TAKEAWAYS

1 | HE ALWAYS PROVIDES

This one is short and sweet. Emerald talks about the Bible Study that she was in, and owning her faith her Sophomore year and how close she felt to God. And we can see that He placed some strong teammates around her at that time. Even though she never had a Christian coach, she never felt any opposition from her leaders in sports. And on top of that, she was fed by her peers and she grew in her love and reverence for the Lord. When we are faithful and are bold in our faith in Him, he will provide building blocks and support where we need it. He promises never to give us more than we can handle! He is there for us and it’s important to live up to the standards that He has set for us.

2 | HE IS ALWAYS THERE

A common feeling for individual-sport athletes is that it’s all on them. You control how fast you swim, you control how fast your run; you’re in control. But you don’t have to be alone in that! God is with us, always. He promises us that. He isn’t swaying the outcomes of sporting events in your favor, or anyone else’s favor. But he wants to be there with you, He wants you to invite Him into your passions. Don’t forget, you are created in His image, fearfully and wonderfully made! In Emerald’s case, she was gifted to run and made it a priority to run for His glory! You do your sport and perform for an audience of one. No matter what, He is faithful even when we are not.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.” | Joshua 1:9

SHOW NOTES

Welcome to the first episode and interview from our Identity series. We will be releasing a new episode every Monday for the coming weeks here and we hope you love listening as much as we did capturing the stories here. We have women from every stage of life, who rooted themselves in every sport, who have all come to realize where their identity and passions firmly lie in life, and what really matters. Where our pursuits should be.

Today, we have Wren Pauley interviewing Emerald Holden on to start things off. Emerald is a small town girl who grew up in Wyoming and passionately pursued running and the Lord throughout college and her adult life. Listen in today as she describes finding her actual roots while pursuing her passions and being a mom and a wife while maintaining her eyes on the end goal and filling up her passion bucket with what really matters.

You can also listen in to our newly launched Men’s Podcast Channel: Uncharted, as we’re currently running a sister-program on that channel for male athletes also called Identity.

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